Have You Ever Stumbled?

Recently I switched browsers from IE to Firefox. Firefox is a bit different and requires that you actually add in the features you need, rather than have a billion pre-loaded that hog your computer and make ugly faces at you when you are trying to work! Anyhoo...

I happened upon an add-on called StumbleUpon. It's a little program where you enter your particular interests; say art, homeschooling, gardening, books...and it puts a button much like a random blog button on your menu. Then you go stumbling. Almost every time I have hit the button, it's come up with the neatest sites! Of course, with anything internetish there are risks, so caution is advised, but I haven't seen anything bad yet.

It gives you the option to give each site a thumbs up or down, and it records your preferences as bookmarks, and your dislikes as items to steer clear of in future stumbling. I've already shared a couple of goodies with you here and here. And here is some more really neat things I've stumbled upon!

Blender mason jar.
One pot herb gardening.
For amateur bread makers.
Recipe for Girl Scout Samoas!!! Whooohooo!
Recipes for bath and body products.
Like fast food?
Writing letters without envelopes.
Pop Bottle irrigation for potted plants.

Just Thinking: How I Decide To Add Something To Our Week

I am very analytical by my God-made nature. I must start with the details of a problem and work up to the solution--piece by piece. The smaller the pieces to start with, the easier the going. Often the process is not a thrill, nor is it automatic. What goes on in my head can't always come out on paper. This is one reason I love lists, but apart from making them and collecting them, I don't "use" them. I really spend a lot of time thinking things through. And processing. I'm processing now.

It has been often a source of frustration to see and hear, and be so passionate about so many things "homeschooling". Good ideas and wonderful opportunities really are a dime a dozen, but can I do them all? Some say they will not allow themselves to be pulled into that. They feel it is a trap that is too discouraging. That may be so, to a point.

I suppose in my own head, I look at these things different. The first thing that happens when I hear an idea is an emotional reaction. Either I love it, or hate it. Next, I decide if that is something I would want to do with my children. After that it's, "can I do this with my children?" And then, of course it's, "shall I do this with my children?"

My most recent "process" of the brain has me asking new questions: "Did God put this opportunity here for us?" or, more thought provokingly, "Does this agree with our Biblical teaching philosophy and our desire to seek God's will in our lives and learning?" I'm also asking myself if it's a once in a life-time chance--a "season" that I will not be able to get back. If there is no negative, or objection, I find myself asking if the opportunity is "foundational", a "building block", or "experiential".

A foundational opportunity might be teaching phonograms. You can't very well move on in "life" without it. A building block would be grammar. It's great to be a fabulous writer with all your punctuation right, but in the grand scheme of things will it make or break you--or more importantly, will it affect who you are in Christ? While learning to read would (you couldn't read His word on your own), the grammar would not necessarily.

The last thing is experiential. Many things come along in homeschooling that fall under this category. That's one of the reasons we do it, correct? We can give our kids so many experiences in learning that ps kids don't get--that WE never got. Here's the rub, however.

I've got this great opportunity. I'll use nature study as an example. I'm attracted to the idea like bees on honey! There are lots of reasons to like it.

It shows us God's design, His creation, His very nature.
It epitomizes health and happiness.
There is nothing "bad" about it.
"I" never got to do it.
The artistic elements are appealing
It's a God-thing, not a world-thing.

But then there's the arguments:

I haven't an idea how to do it, or wouldn't be good at it.
I don't have time, or I can't do it all.
I'd have to give something else up.
I don't live by a forest and stream with walking trails, or on a farm.
I live in a fenced in suburban yard with no trees, no parks, no nothing.

For me, nature study falls under experiential. Is it important to life? Many would argue no. But for some reason, and I'd like to think it's a "God" reason, I think it might be. Would being outside in God's creation affect my kid's character? Draw them closer to the Lord? Teach them something incredible? All things I ponder. And the biggie, "Do I believe God really provides all that we need to do a task which He has given us to accomplish?" If it's really an opportunity put before us from the Lord, will he not provide the bugs, dirt, plants, paths, weather, TIME, leading, etc.?

And what will I give up? I've prayerfully decided to put aside grammar, for a season of nature study. The experiential is trumping the building block--this time. If you look again at the arguments for and against, you might notice what I noticed when I just wrote them. The arguments against are "I" centered. The arguments for are more "God" centered. Not all, but enough to be obvious to me who wants God and eternal things as a focus. Is nature study an eternal thing? A lot more than basketball, or video games. It's definitely a God thing! He made it, didn't He?!!

There is a season for things. This is the season of childhood. Getting dirty, exploring and adventuring. It's not our season for Grammar. Grammar can wait. Rolling down hills and catching bugs can't. So we're going to give it a try. We won't be perfect or do it like others do. We'll keep it simple and pray and hopefully enjoy it. I'm pretty sure we'll be the better for it.

So there you have it. I was just thinking, and thought I'd share. And now that I'm done processing, we're actually going to DO it! :)

No Child Left Inside

I let my kids play outside. My neighbors do not let their kids play outside. It makes us all so sad knowing that they are cooped up inside, in front of the tv. I realize it takes effort to open the door and breath in fresh air, but the alternative stinks--literally :)!

Harmony Art Mom is starting a series for those of us (ME!) who are nature-study-inept! With very simple instructions, we can follow along and add a bit more order to our outside time.

That sounds so yummy to me. I'm one of those people who grew up in front of the tv. So I've never really had a clue how to get "into" nature. You won't find me camping and playing with bugs, but my appreciation for God's creation has really grown and I love it more and more everyday!

My "Handbook of Nature Study" (it's now available free online here!) has been collecting dust too long! I'm on it now! Care to join me?!

Tags

I got tagged today...and that reminded me that I had been tagged a little while ago (and totally forgot! Sorry Lisa!). So here are both responses. First, a reading meme.

The rules:

1. Pick up the nearest book of at least 123 pages.

2. Open the book to page 123.

3. Find the 5th sentence.

4. Post the next 3 sentences.

5. Tag 5 people.

The book I'm reading is "Mark's Story", by Tim LaHaye and Jerry B. Jenkins. It is from a series about the gospel writers. Really good so far!

Here's the sentences:
"And He also asked us, 'Is a lamp brought to be put under a basket or under a bed? Is it not to be set on a lampstand? For there is noing hidden which will not be revealed, nor has anything been kept secret but that it should come to light."

Now, I realize that since the author is quoting Jesus, I might as well have chosen the Bible, so here's another book that is our family read aloud. I couldn't write from pg 123 because it was non-sense so I chose the last of the sentences we read last night from "The Lamplighter", by Maria S. Cummins (1854).

""Are you afraid to see me die, Gertrude?" asked Mrs. Sullivan, an hour before her death. On Gertrude's answering that she was not, "Then turn me a little towards you," said she, "that your face, my darling, may be the last to me of earth." It was done, and with her hand lacked fast in Gertrude's and a look that spoke the deepest affection, she passed away."

Now, on to the 5 (useless) things about me meme. I'm pretty sure I got hit with this one a long time ago, but here's a fresh perspective:

The rules:
1. Link to your tagger and post these rules.
2. Share 5 facts about yourself with pictures.
3. Tag 5 people at the end of your post and list their names (linking to them).
4. Let them know they’ve been tagged by leaving a comment at their blogs.

(or you can let them find out reading your blog!--I just added that part! :))

1. I love jar candles.
2. Someone put a dead mouse in my desk drawer at work once. She had forgotten that I had the authority to fire her. She wasn't around much longer. Not because of just the mouse, but her mean spirit made her impossible to work with.
3. I yearn to learn to play the cello.
4. I have actually prayed my son will become a chiropractor-heehee! :)
5. I knew I would marry my husband the second he confessed that he had been pining for me without my knowledge.

So there you have it. I don't have any pictures to share today; maybe in the spring when I'm not so pale and the sun is shining!

Rather than tag ten, I'll tag five and let you choose (if you choose to play) which meme you prefer to answer! :)

Dana @ Simple Gifts
Joni
Renae
Jennifer
Melissa @ Bright Star

Hidden Savings

After my post on True Frugality, I was thinking about our recent decision to banish boxed cereal from our home. It began with the whole white sugar/white flour purge (to help build immune system and naturally protect against things like the flu), which led to the choice of more natural, healthier, and way more expensive brands, which ended with a processed food ban.

So not only did we quit buying, and thus eating, said boxed cereals, but we replaced them with lots of yummy, wholesome meals (which we are eating together and since they take longer, are having more quality time in the a.m.). I knew we would be saving approximately $180 a month because the cereal at an average of $4 a box--with about a box a day, was probably that and more.

What I had forgotten to include in the equation was the fact that it cut the kids milk intake in HALF! That's 3 gallons of milk a week at $6/gallon (organic). So, $18x52 weeks/12 months=$78 a month! For a grand whopping total of $258.

Do you know how much $258 a month can save? When paid on our debt, we'd save even more moolah not paying interest, which gets us out of debt quicker AND is less time the husband has to work to pay it! More time at home=happier and healthier family!

As far as what we're eating instead, it's meals that are mere pennies compared to the big whopping dollars! True frugality.

All because of a boxed cereal ban!

True Frugality

I'm really confused by what a lot of people are calling frugal living. I'm always reading about moms who cut coupons in the name of frugality. They not only cut coupons, they collect individual store coupons and post about their conquests trekking from one store to another garnering deals on shaving cream and hair color. They claim victory upon victory in the purchase of numerous items for nearly nothing. They often gloat and brandish their coupon madness for all to see. Ninety-nine cent packages of hot-dogs are "the bomb!"

This way of thinking is so strange to me. To me all that is absolute slavery.

First off, "them that do" are slaves to the "bargain". They have to have "it" if "it's" a "deal". If they have a coupon, or there's a sale, they have to GO. Worse than all that, they go from store, to store, to store, to store to get "it". They spend hours cutting, organizing and pondering sales flyers. They plan their weeks around sales. They are made happy by saving "something" and are giddy at the thought of the next "savings". They drive and drive endlessly to get it. Where do they come by all that time?! It baffles me. How is that frugal living?

I'm all for saving, but what do these folks really get out of it? To me slavery is when you "have" to do something "because...". You have to go to CVS because you can get 5 of these with 2 coupons and the sale and the rebate for 4.5 cents! You HAVE to get your dry goods HERE because they are 25 cents cheaper.

I have a cousin like this. She can not shop at one grocery. She has to hit them all. She spends hours with her Sunday paper memorizing, cutting and planning her purchases. Why not just go when you need to! Why not buy just what you need? If you are using coupons, most likely you are acting on the dictates of the manufacturer. Is it really something you need? If it is, great! But how often is it...really? Is it really frugal living to "live" for the next "deal"?


What about true frugality? True frugality, to me, is using a bit less. It's finding ways to change your lifestyle for "less". It's sometimes about spending MORE so you can LIVE. You can't LIVE on Ding Dongs no matter how cheap you get them. I see more coupons for "Ding-Dongs" than I do for milk. Won't you be better nourished buying quality all-natural meat than hot-dogs?

True frugality for me is buying toilet paper at Kroger instead of Target because if I have to go to Target it takes an entire afternoon, 2 whiny kids who hate being there, a MINimum of $200 a trip, which always includes something I didn't plan to buy (because that's really what Target is for!), 8 miles more gas than the grocery store, eating fast food (yuck!) and complete and utter exhaustion. Not to mention all the other things I couldn't do because I HAD to go there...,

I didn't get to bake my bread, read that history book to son, practice ballet with daughter, rest! I didn't get to look out my window at the snow falling or put pictures in my scrapbook. I didn't get to sit by the fire and drink a cup of tea while visiting with a friend, I didn't get to call my dad.

Don't get me wrong...I love Target. The point is, sometimes I choose to spend more and buy a few things at Kroger because I'm there and I want TO GO HOME AND STAY HOME! It's so worth my time (financially and otherwise) to make that choice. That is true frugality to me. Staying home more. Not putting wear and tear on your self, your family, your car, your self, to shop, shop, shop.. wearing your self out!!

True frugality is spending money to learn to plant a garden to sustain your family rather than spend the time cutting coupons. True frugality is about priorities. True frugality is about consumption and choices. It's about saving the cable bill so you can buy games to play with your kids. It's about saving the cost of a Wii so that your children will have time to read the best books ever written!

As you can imagine, I could go on and on. I know that there is something appealing to every mom in "saving" and finding bargains. We're drawn to info about it like moths to flames. But do we remember that the gate is wide that leads to destruction. When we run, the race of endurance we better be running the right race. Idolatry comes in all shapes and sizes, even coupon shapes and sizes.

My prayer for myself is that my frugality will come in the wisdom to make good choices and pass that wisdom on to my children. We don't have an abundance to spend. We still have debt we're working our way out of, but that has more to do with God and his provision and lessons for us, as anything.

I write all this not to judge anyone who loves to cut those coupons, but just as a reminder to myself that it's okay for me to buy wooden spoons at Kroger instead of the dollar store. After all, I'm cooking healthy meals for my family using them...instead of going to Taco Bell.

My Dream Library

STIFTSBIBLIOTHEK ST. GALLEN

Choose your favorite here!

Teaching Bible

For the last two years we have been using the Judah Bible Curriculum. This, to me, is more of a scope and sequence based on Principle Approach, than it is a "curriculum". There is nothing "done" for you, other than the topics laid out over a four year rotation. The notes are a guide for teaching principally and historically, with one objective being to see all of scripture as ONE story.

When we bought it, it immediately became apparent that it was going to take work. I was committed to teaching principally and Biblically. I wanted my children to understand God and scripture in a way that many adults don't. I yearned for their hearts to be wholly His and their wisdom to be of heavenly things.

But it takes work. It takes weekly effort. Often hours of preparation. The thing is, it's His Word. It's not planning a lesson on Mozart or Little House on the Prairie. It's His Word. To me, there can be nothing more important.

It saddens me when I hear people wanting to find something easier. I know I struggle with this in many of our subjects, but with Bible I can't go there. It's that important to me. That time as much nourishes me, as I know it will nourish my kids. The idea that God has as much for me to learn as two little ones, humbles me.

Very early on I realized that it wasn't so much about teaching the Bible, or even learning the Bible, it was about growing relationships rooted and grounded in the King of Kings, the Creator, the Alpha and Omega, the Son of Man, the Lamb of God.

I know that many believers just don't know how to go about teaching Bible. I know I've struggled at different times and to varying degrees with my own time in the Word, and imagine that most do as well. This was, therefore, an opportunity to change that. Because I'm practical by nature, having the scope and sequence was a great start. Also, having a meaning to our homeschool--a methodology which both exemplifies purpose and learning style, gave me the "how". This was our Principal Approach. From there, I knew it had to be just me and the Holy Spirit. And no! that's not always comfortable and it's definitely not easy. And yes. Sometimes I look at "packaged" programs and my brow furrows, but I say "no". And sometimes I even try to do it in my own power. It doesn't work.

The other day on a loop I saw someone selling Judah Bible and their comment was that they were replacing it with a history program. Bible is HIStory but Bible is not "History". They are very different for learning purposes. I was telling my husband that if I could do nothing else, I would do just Bible and it would be enough. Historically speaking, folks used to only have the Bible to teach with. They learned to read with it and they learned about life from it. Why is it not often good enough?

When we talk to people about homeschooling and hear the inevitable "I could never do that", I always tell them truthfully that God gives you what you need to accomplish the task set before you. Whether physically, emotionally, or spiritually, He supplies.

One resource I feel very blessed with is E-Sword. If you are not familiar with it, it is a free Bible package download. A ton of different versions are available as well as Webster's 1828 Dictionary (which is the only legitimate dictionary, as far as I'm concerned! :)), commentaries like Matthew Henry and the really awesome Treasury of Scripture Knowledge. You can have the Septuagint, the Textus Receptus and much more.

I can start a "topic" for a new lesson, drag and drop scripture, definitions, and commentary notes right to it. I can write all my own notes and questions, search the scriptures, highlight and change the layout, then print it. In other words, it's invaluable! We may think we are starting with a bare slate when we choose a program like Judah Bible, but with God there is no BARE slate.

Maybe the fact that many don't want to teach it is a reflection of what is happening in many churches. I don't know. It seems like that makes sense, but it's sad for whatever reason. My hope would be that in any homeschool community, whether at home or via computer, that mom's would help, support, and lift up each other in teaching God's Word. Share your plans, your struggles and your light bulb moments. Share how the children are growing in their relationships with the Lord. AND that they would never settle for "good enough".

Burts Bees: The "Good"--Products Review

I figure it's time to tell you one of the best natural products I've discovered. Actually, two of them...okay, three. But I'll stop there for now.

Just about everyone's heard of Burt's Bees, but have you tried 'em? When I began my quest for all things "non-chemical", their stuff was the first I tried. Imagine my surprise when I found some real wing-dingers.

The Radiance Body Lotion rocks! Imagine a lotion that is great for body, hands, AND faces. I'm so tired of "chemical peel" type moisturizers. I'm old, and getting older. It's not gonna go the other way! Well, this lotion really does work great. More exciting to me than the "faces" too part, is the leg part. I've NEVER been able to put ANYTHING on my legs. Those hair follicles swell up so itchy and mean that it's enough to make you cry--and I have, often. It's always been a chore to keep my legs in sunscreen in the summer. They don't like anything EXCEPT Burt's Bees. Sweet. And oh so soft. Really nice.

Next, I fell head over heels in goo-goo love for their Peppermint Shower Soap. I'm down to my last little scrap and I'm so sad 'cause at $4 a bar, it's gonna be a rare commodity. It really is the most wonderful soap, though. Love it.

Lastly is the Medicated Lip Balm. Goodbye Carmex, hello perfection. Carmex is great and all, but it always gave me little pimples along my lip line. (TMI?) Ick. This stuff is worth it's weight in gold! If I had any.

So there's my two-cents worth. Definitely the "good" side of the natural products out there.

PS. I keep trying their shampoo, but tonight after my hair dried my 8yo son said, "What'd you do to your hair?" And the look on his face said, "Whatever you did, it's NOT good."

Breakfast Recipes!

I've been asked for a couple of Menu Plan Monday recipes. We are continuing to make healthier choices, including not buying processed foods. The money we save on that, we are using for better ingredients which are more nourishing and go farther. We are discovering that by eating healthier and heartier, we have less need to snack!

First, I had to include the Walnut Waffles, which are so luscious and good for you. We had them this morning and I've made a note to self to mix the dry ingredients together the night before. Though not really time consuming, having that and everything put away, will definitely save time in the a.m.

1 1/2c whole wheat flour (or 1 c all-purp + 1/2c ww)
1 1/2 t baking powder (I like the non-aluminum kind)
1/2 t baking soda
1/2 t (sea) salt
2 T brown sugar Suganat (optional)
2 c buttermilk (I use powdered which requires 8T + 2 c water--this keeps me from constantly throwing away buttermilk!)
1/4 c coconut oil (or canola, but coconut is better for you!)
3/4 c finely chopped walnuts (heart healthy!)
1/2 c raisins (optional--I did not use)

Mix dry, then wet. Don't over mix. Stir in walnuts last.

I use a big waffle iron w/4 squares. It made about 12-14 squares. The husband left early, so we had plenty of leftovers which I layered with wax paper in a plastic 1/2 gallon bag (sucked out all the air with a straw) and froze for next week! Yeah! I used a 1/4 c to pour it so that I wouldn't over flow (which I did when I used the 1/2 c! :)) Be sure to spray your iron w/oil before cooking.

Next, Grahamcake Pancakes. I have not yet made these, but will add my thoughts when I have!

3/4 c (whole wheat) flour
3/4 c graham cracker crumbs (I'm intending to use graham flour, which Hodgson Mill makes and is available at Kroger--cheaper & not processed like the crackers--at least, that's my thoughts before actually trying it :)!)
1 T baking powder (non-alum)
1/4 t (sea) salt
1 c milk (for thinner pancakes add another 1/2 c)
2 T melted butter
1 egg
1/2 c chopped pecans (optional; add last)

Combine dry ingredients in lg. bowl. Combine wet in sm. bowl. Pour wet into dry. Mix well for thick batter. Cook on hot griddle over med-high heat.

Lastly, Skillet Granola
This recipe excites me for some reason; probably because it's fast! I also haven't made it yet, but we make other granola all the time. Granola is so flexible as to what you can add and subtract. I may try adding a bit of vanilla to this one. It's a small recipe which begs to be experimented with! Heehee!

In a lg nonstick skillet over med. heat, melt 2 T butter.
Add 2T honey,
2T sesame seeds &
2T unsalted sunflower seeds

Cook and stir for 2 minutes.
Add 1 c Quick Oats and 3T chopped walnuts.
Toss and turn w/ a couple of wooden spoons for about 5 minutes.
Spread on waxed paper to cool.
Serve warm or cold.
Store in covered container.

I confess, the Vanilla/Almond Oatmeal (which I was asked about) is boxed and is the last of our "processed" breakfast cereals. It is "Simple Harvest" brand and the kids do like it and it is healthier than most! Expensive though.

I'd love to hear from anyone who tries these recipes, so keep in touch!

James Whitcomb Riley: The Hoosier Poet

I'm delighted to have selected another poet to continue our Poem-A-Day adventure. After our last fiasco, I decided to pick a "sure thing" in the delight department--James Whitcomb Riley. Besides the fact that I have several very, very old volumes that have been handed down through my family, and besides the fact that he was a local, his poems are very different and charming. The "hick"(for lack of a better term :)) dialect that he uses to engage the reader is fun, rather than annoying (at least so far!) and really shows his individuality.

I haven't found a good, simple biography on him yet, but I'm sure I will. For now, we just went with the most well-known general info and began reading.

I am using my books, and also the collection from Ambleside. I made a picture/poster for our school room and I use a simple biography sheet that I made up. I'll work on making that available to anyone who may want it.

We also have the honor of having both of his homes--both upheld as museums--here in our city, as well as his grave. We are also fortunate to have NOT had to visit the children's hospital named after him--may we never have to. Ah, field trips! Gotta love that!

Menu Plan Monday: Feb. 18-24

I just have to say that undertaking this little (read: huge!) meal planning venture (as in Menu Plan Monday) is most aggravating when said "Monday" comes around so quickly and there is little chance you've finished off the meals from the previous week. Whew! I just had to get that out!

I just purged my fridge and threw away way too much! Since beginning to cook more, we are a bit over-run with leftovers and the 'ole eyes are often bigger than the stomach. Those beautiful pictures in the cookbooks are quite luring sometimes. Note to self: Curb the meal size.

Oh! The best news about this Menu Plan Monday thing (besides the fact that we are eating so much better) is that husband totally understands the "must shop on Monday" to the point that since I now have my own vehicle, he's OFFERED to keep the kids at his office while I shop. *sob, sob* :) What a HUGE blessing! He sooooo made my day--well, that and little girl crawling in bed to snuggle this morning...oh, and sweetest boy sneaking in to kiss my cheek while I was praying.

So, here 'tis. I'm going to start marking new items and I'm going to include at least one recipe for you too.

Breakfast:
Monday-Vanilla Almond Oatmeal, clementines
Tuesday-French Toast, bananas
Wednesday-Scrambled eggs, sausage, sliced pear
Thursday-Cinn/Nutmeg French Toast, bananas
Friday-Baked Steel-Cut Oatmeal, turkey bacon, oranges
Saturday-Grahmcake Pancakes, sausage, bananas *new*

Sunday-Skillet Granola, yogurt, sliced apples *new*

Lunch:
Monday-L/O Pizza & veggies, applesauce
Tuesday-Raman Noodles w/Egg & Peas, Pears
Wednesday-Sunflower Seed Butter & Jelly, Carrots, Apples
Thursday-L/O BBQ Pork Sandwiches, corn & fresh fruit salad
Friday-Spicy Cheese Quesadillas, carrots, applesauce
Saturday-L/O

Sunday-[Church Potluck: Greek theme--Greek salad & feta and basil cheese spread *new*

Dinner:
Monday-Chili, cornbread & pears
Tuesday-BBQ Pork Roast, salad, & plums
Wednesday-Coconut Chicken (see recipe below!), broccoli, & fresh fruit salad
Thursday-Sloppy Turkey Joes, green beans, applesauce
Friday-Rosemary Citrus Pork Chops, salad, & pears
Saturday-Ham & Cheese Omelets, toast, oranges

Sunday-Roast Chicken, mixed vegetables, plums

A favorite recipe I'll use this week is for....

Coconut Chicken.
Mix 1 c sweetened (or unsweetened, if you like) coconut with
1/2 c. flour,
1/2 t. salt,
1/4 t. pepper &
1/4 t. garlic powder
...in a med. bowl.

Dip chicken cut into strips into a lightly beaten egg (w/a little milk added).
Place in a shallow baking pan.
Drizzle with 1/3 c melted butter.
Bake at 400 degrees for 25 minutes or till chicken is browned and cooked through, turning once.

FYI...It doesn't really "brown", but you'll know when it's cooked... and you have to be a bit careful turning it so the coating doesn't fall off. I suggest a bit of butter or spray into the pan before putting the chicken in.

This is so unbelievably yummy, you'll want to make a dbl batch for a snack or lunch. (Rats! Why didn't I think of that this week?!) I *think* this originally came from Rachel Ray.

For more great Menu Plan Mondays, or to participate, go here!

Totally Fun Art Site: Jackson Pollock

I just came across this site and it is irresistable!

Warning: Highly addictive!

Now you know what to put in that blank frame that you've been hanging on to! :)

"Rail" Laying

I've written a couple of times (like here) about one of my favorite resources of all time: "Laying Down Rails" from Simply Charlotte Mason. This compilation of all things "Charlotte" put about in a manner which is both practical and inspiring, takes me to a very happy place when it comes to rearing children. It's focus on habit and character has been a pivotal spot for me.

All that to say that it's really good stuff and I, for one, drink it in. My only *sigh* is that I make mistakes along the way. And why do they always seem like the end of the world? Well, in all my recent angst about what I'm supposed to be doing--or what comes next-- the Lord keeps bringing to the forefront of my mind's eye foundations and simplicity. Enjoyment of learning and learning to be "keepers". Not just keepers of "things", but keepers of ourselves in the presence of God.

My growing son is expressing himself more and is saying that Daddy is for play--and you know what comes next...Mommy is for work. Interesting, isn't it? Though Daddy is gone working all day, the time he spends in the presence of his family is play. Mommy's time--all spent in the presence of family is all spent at work. Teaching, cleaning, guiding, preparing. This is so true and so depressing! A mother's work IS never done. Though we spend quality time together reading and learning, to him it's not "play". This has really had me in a whirl as I've realized I can't really change it, but I can change the perception, (that I have no time to play) which I believe is really the issue.

Attitude, habit, character. Teaching it, exhibiting it, living it. Not easy stuff, but foundational none the less. And more importantly, Biblically principled.

I'm so much a practical soul that it's hard for me to deal with concepts alone, but I feel I must "decide" on a plan (which for me is the practical part) for times when school is not a pleasure. Or for when I'm too busy and yet my children need my presence for play.

I remember sometime way back in my 20's (way back) when I, as a growing young woman discovering herself, and realized I must never make a decision during a certain time of thee...you know. Period. Too emotional. Not a good time to be deciding things. I carried that with me into my true adulthood and it has saved me so much grief! And it has taught me that decision making can be an instrument of both good and harm.

So I'm trying to make some decisions about how to proceed with our days. I do not want to continue to look back and have even the twinkling of regret. So much has gone so well as we've schooled, that I know that it can be even more so. I don't want to put off any longer what they will not be able to recover as they grow. That truly goes for myself as well. How they perceive me does matter and will shape other relationships. I want their relational foundations at home and in Christ to be what they build on.

Now that I've decided to make some decisions, I'm on my way. I hope and pray each decision will be for profit and victory in our growth as the individuals that God has created us to be. I know that it will come little, by little, but it will come. I also know that each little bit will affect every other bit, big and little.

I'm going to start with my Bible beside my "Laying Down Rails" and pray my little heart out. Whatever discernment comes, I really hope to make those decisions, with no turning back.

A Pile of Mushy Goo

Yes! My brain is a pile of mushy goo. I totally blame it on "February" because me and "February" don't get along too well. Some of you are planting in your yards, swimming in your "watering holes" and soaking in that very foreign "thing"--what is it? On yeah. Sunshine! I'm frozen solid, house-bound for all fun purposes, and wore out from colds, inactivity, short days, dryness. I'm not however, worn out from too much snow! Which would be a pleasant change of pace.

Instead, my head is swimming with ideas. Most of them are school and homemaker related. I'm struggling with feeling of dis-satisfaction. Mediocrity is creeping into everything and I find that so appalling and unacceptable, yet I feel like a deer in headlights. It always seems to come down to time with me, and though I'm a total believer in God as the super-natural time giver, I'm thwarted by my own inability to "rise up". As in, get my fat rear out of this chair and DO.

There are advantages to the 'ole computer. I know I don't need to make that argument here. Really, I just want to do everything--do it now--and do it well. Let's not forget...with time to spare! So much of it is in my head and I don't know how to get it out. I've tried beating my head against the wall, but I think that's what put me in this position in the first place! :)

Usually I'm really good with taking a position or an idea and running with it. Unfortunately, I'm not very good at doing just one thing at a time. All...all...alll!! I can't clean out a drawer. I have to clean out the room. I can't plan one subject. I have to plan them all. I can't do one craft project. I need one in each medium, all at once. And if I could just stop sneezing....

I'm hoping that this is my rant before the big wind which will usher me into a more productive and profitable period. As I checked off our attendance keeping on our calendar today, I noticed we haven't missed a day of school since son's accident Jan. 3rd. Maybe it's just break time. I think that there is a pattern with me--a cycle, if you will. Thankfully, it doesn't seem related to the "other" one. Then I'd truly be insane! So, I'm getting up now and I'm going to make a wonderful, yummy healthy lunch for my family and bake some bread, all while listening to Jerry Williams and Harvest. Maybe then I'll get a clue what I'm supposed to be doing.

Comments

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Decisions

Thank you, dear friends, for your comments, calls, and prayers. Our family celebrated Valentine's Day last night and husband and I had plenty of time to talk about everything that's happening. In some way, I was hoping husband would make the decision for me, and in some ways he did.

Husband's main reasoning for pursuing the issue and seeing to it that this man stay in prison, was that if he had found redemption, or was in any way remorseful, we would have heard from him sometime in the last 20 years. That very fact, and all of the other meaningful arguments regarding consequences, have given me a peace about willingly helping the prosecutor.

It's all still yucky though! I want you to know, husband offered me my hot fudge sundae, but it was too cold, so I substituted a peppermint hot chocolate (lowfat of course) from Starbucks. It made it all better until that whole "scale" thing in the morning.

Now, this parole thing doesn't come up until August, so I have lots of time to dwell on it. The thought, though, that God may have another purpose for this will keep me sane. I'll "dwell" on it, but do so in Him.

Just When You've Forgotten

I'm glad for a bit of a break today. The kids are working on their "on-your-own" lessons and I have a lot to process.

This morning a got a call from the District Attorney's office in Dallas. I lived there many, many years ago. While I was there, there was an incident. You can read my story here. Suffice it to say, I've been tracked down because the case has come up again as the perpetrator (I just used "perpetrator" in a sentence.) is coming up for parole. It's been 20 years.

Apparently, the DA is searching out all of the 18 or so victims to let them know and to stir up (oh yes, it "stirred up" alright.) interest in attending the parole hearing to keep this man in prison.

He had been convicted of serial ra*pe and assault. Multiple concurrent life sentences. He was a 29 year old Bap*tist minister--with a wife and 3 small children.

Yeah.

Ok.

Well...as you can imagine there are about a billion things going through my head. Has he been "reformed"? What kind of prisoner is he? Yuck. Will I be in danger if he gets out? Fun stuff to think about.

It has been so long and though right now it feels like yesterday, it's really not! This DA wants me to judge a man that I am in no position to judge. At one point this man proclaimed to know the Lord. Does he? Has he repented? How am I supposed to know?

According to the DA, he is a "very dangerous man" who is still young (he would be about 50) and capable of much destruction. Though his crimes did not include murder, I can't help thinking, "Don't people learn how to commit crimes in prison?" Maybe after 20 years in prison, instead of a reformed man, we have a murderer to "judge". How am I supposed to know?

They (the DA) wants (of course) 100% "participation" in the process. They are willing to pay expenses. Do I want to see this man? NO. Do I want him to see me? NNOOOO. Do I want to be anonymous and pretend it never happened and continue living my life without the memory of that event? Yes. What am I supposed to do?

I suppose in some sense I'm relieved to know that he's still in prison (I thought he might be out) and that the DA is letting us know. I was a bit surprised how easily they found me since I never left anything but my old address with them; I wasn't married, etc. Kinda dumb, I guess. Big brother IS watching, right? Uggh. And now they are sending paper work.

Words that were so conforting to me at the time are still with me. The Lord is still with me! What would the Lord have me do? I'm confident in Him as judge, not in me as judge. I can't remember his name. Isn't that weird? I remember the face...but. I can't. Remember. His name. I didn''t want to tell the DA guy that I couldn't remember his name! Now it's going to bug me and I'll have to think about it or dig up all the old paperwork so I'll know the name of the man who attacked me and has spent 20 years in prison. Great. Makes my day.

I want a hot fudge sundae. With nuts.

What am I supposed to do? Be a good little citizen and prosecute away. Been there, done that. I guess his sentence was life in prison and that's what it should be. I just keep thinking about Chuck Colson and the Prison Ministry. I keep thinking about Corrie Ten Boom's message to prisoners (a video she made sharing the Gospel with prisoners).

Guilt is no longer the issue. Second chances are the issue. Does everyone deserve a second chance? Maybe he's already received his second chance within prison. Maybe that is all irrelevant. How am I supposed to know?

Prayer. I know all I can do is pray. If you think about it, would you pray too. A little wisdom wouldn't hurt me right now.

Menu Plan Monday (on Tues! 2/12/08)

I'm late with my menu plan. Last weeks plan ended up a draw pile. So many things came up to throw us off track. We're hoping this week will be an improvement.

Last night I entered a grocery store for the first time in months. We finally have a 2nd car again. Now, it's back to that drudgery that I have so enjoyed having the husband do for me. I wonder if he would still do it? Maybe if I cook him some really good breakfasts and dinners--and maybe throw in some homemade lunches for the office?

Breakfast
Wed-Johnny Cakes, sausage, clementines
Thur-Instant Granola, yogurt, bananas
Fri-Cinnamon Nutmeg French toast, oranges
Sat-Walnut Waffles, yogurt, apple slices
Sun-Orange Nut Muffins, sausage, pear slices

Lunch
Tue-Macaroni & Ham, baby carrots, strawberries
Wed-Raman Noodles w/Egg, peas, applesauce
Thur-Turkey/Cheese Quesadillas, Green Beans, clementines
Fri-Sunflower Seed Butter** & Jelly sandwiches (fresh homemade bread) carrots, applesauce
Sat-Texas Style Chili, cornbread, fruit
Sun-Leftovers

Dinner
Tue-Walnut and Rosemary Anglehair Pasta, Mixed Veggies, applesauce
Wed-Grandpa's Fish (which we didn't get to last week!), Broccoli, fruit salad
Thur-Spaghetti, garlic bread, corn, apples
Fri-Chicken and Prosciutto Roll-overs, green beans, pears
Sat-BBQ Pork Roast, cheesy mashed potatoes, applesauce
Sun-Leftovers

**In case you're wondering, Sunflower Seed Butter is in place of Peanut Butter because of son's peanut allergy. It is a GREAT substitute and relatively easy to find at the grocery stores now.

I'll try to post more recipes soon. In the mean time, let me know if anything looks good and I'll post the recipe!

Yeah. Right.

There is no excuse for this pathetic "dusting".

Where's my 9"??

We're Expecting!

We're finally expecting...SNOW!!! We are supposed to get up to 9" by noon tomorrow. Last time the forecasters tormented us with their predictions. I should probably not trust them, but I'm giving them this last, second chance. We're chanting our mantra.

Snow....snow....snow....snow...snow...

We.

Want.

Snow!

The next thing you see here will either include pictures of snow...or I'm leaving for Florida.

The Church Thing

Yesterday we did the church thing. For those of you who don't know, this has been a big struggle for us because the church we've been attending teaches more opinion than Bible. If we hadn't committed to teach an adult SS class, we'd be gone. Instead, we teach the class and have a home fellowship time with another family. But yesterday, we visited another church.

Husband has had ties to a Horizon Fellowship for years and we have good friends also involved in one. Well, it turns out there is one near us, so we went. Several very, VERY shocking things happened.

First off, we were greeted by two 12 year old boys at the door. They had SMILES on their faces. What is WRONG with those boys? They are homeschooled, of course!

Next, we were greeted by EVERYONE! It was so nice and I know for a fact that I have never been to a "public" church where this has happened. Husband commented afterward that not one person asked about his job. Asking about a man's job is what (he says) men do when they don't really want to talk to you, but have to.

THEN...we sat down for the praise and worship--actually we stood up--for an HOUR! They sang for an HOUR...ANNNNDDDDD they didn't sing songs about ME...ME...ME...They sang about God and heavenly things--even a HYMN, of all things! Absolutely astounding.

And it gets better. The teaching time was another HOUR. AND went OVER! AND did I mention it was BIBLE teaching AND that there were CHILDREN PRESENT! Can you hear the shocking sarcasm in my typing! I'm trying to be VERY CLEAR here!! Well, there's more.

We talked with the pastor and his wife after and I asked her if anyone homeschooled there. We didn't know about the 2 boys at the door yet. She replied that she did..."Oh, WE ALL DO!" She added. I like ta' had a heart attack right then and there. All the parents homeschool. Of course, it all made sense. The presence of children, the smiles on everyones faces. The proclaiming of God's Word and heavenly things.

Now I don't mean to imply that non-homeschoolers are not capable of these things. Please forgive me if that notion creeps out. It's just this seems like homeschooling NORMAL. These things are what I've come to know and believe in most Christ-centered homeschool families. We've had so much opposition to it at our "public" church. The pastor there actually told us that the most important thing to teach our children was how to talk to adults so that they can grow up and be successful. How sad is that?

So what propelled us (finally) out the door? Most protestants may not be aware that Lent is actually NOT in the Bible and has pagan origins. But more than their desire to "observe" it, they have decided to have a huge board put up with every families name so that they can record what you are "giving up" for Lent and then hold you accountable for it publicly. SOUNDS LIKE THE OPRAH SHOW TO ME! Ick. Well, I have pretty strong thoughts on all this and I'm trying not to pour them all out here and offend everyone who reads, but our desire is just for the things of God and Him alone. This other made-up religious stuff is just too made-up. God's "stuff" is good enough for me.

We are very happy we attended this other church and hope to go back really soon. It was such a blessing "giving up" my Sunday for true worship and true fellowship.

Our Comlete Week: 2/3/08-2/9/08

Our entire last week is a blur. We've been rather busy battling colds and the usual unexpected distractions. Here we are, I didn't get this posted, yet the week is done, none the less!

Daughter is almost through with her introduction and memorization of the first 29 phonograms in her Spell to Write and Read (SWR). She is loving it and doing so well at it! Flashbacks of her brother have crept in, though, as I've watched her mentally sprint, while physically lag. In other words, while she's been excelling in her learning, her pottying on the potty has taken a temporary set back. Accidents. I know this pattern, and it does help with the anxiety.

We tackled a bit of Samuel and King Saul this week for Judah Bible lesson (Year 3, Theme 3, Wk 1). Yes in deedy! The people wanted an earthly king. Isn't it amazing how even today we find ourselves looking to "officials" rather to the Lord. All the answers must be found in government, but can't possibly be solved in a relationship with God! Son tackled some tough questions like:

#1: Why did God give them (the grumbly, never-satisfied Israelites) what they wanted?
#2: Why didn't they realize they were volunteering for slavery?
#3: What would you being willing to give up to get your way, rather than God's?
#4: Why did they see men as heroes of battle, and not God?
#5: How do we learn to trust in the Lord for all our victories?

We are still going to work on this lesson, as we didn't quite get through it all. Bible lessons are never something we hurry!

Our math time is starting to get challenging and I believe we are coming to the end of our "practice" time. We are beginning to see some new concepts creap in and are ready to hit them head on. I'm going to really attempt to focus more on learning "together" and try to remember (Lord, help me!) to examine and include any Biblical principles that we see in the math. Since I'm a practical person, I've thought of writing a reminder across son's forehead, but alas...I don't think I'll go there!

I'll try to have a more complete update this coming weekend.

Mary Cassat

We've been needing a bit more motivation to get into studying particular artists. Now we have it! Check out what HomeschoolEStore is giving away this week! I'm very excited. They always have neat giveaways, but this one made my eyes light up. I know I'm going to also use this Artist Specials video from Devine Entertainment (these are usually at the library).

Kitchen Keeping

My kitchen has been getting pretty bad lately. It's one of those deals where you flea in terror when you look upon the mess. The idea that it can be avoided wars against the notion that it will take hours to be acceptable. Sometimes, we come home and I can hardly bare to look at it, taking comfort in any other place in the house. The fact that that particular room in the house is the central dumping ground for every member of the family, drives me to despair.

This morning I was checking in on a little blog reading and the person (Laura at 'I'm an Organized Junkie') who has had me thinking about all things "kitchen",(this is her "kitchen month") was sharing her notes from an author's interview on the Op*rah show (which I despise with a passion, but it isn't the author's fault!). She summed it up this way...

"The kitchen is the space that nourishes the family,

no one can have a healthy diet in a kitchen that is cluttered and messy."

Ouch. I realized then and there that all the objectives I've been striving for with healthier food and better habits were being defeated because of my inability to address the issues of our kitchen. Read the rest of her notes here.

The children and I sat down and began talking about stewardship, nutrition, and health. Both were very interested, but when we concluded our discussion with a tour of the kitchen, with new eyes, taking it seriously took on new meaning. My son asked me if we could write down some kitchen rules. Great idea! We talked about the difference between "cleaning" and "keeping": We felt "keeping" was being more in tune with Godly character. This is what we came up.

Ten Commandments of Kitchen Keeping:
1. Always clean up after yourself.
2. Think about others before yourself.
3. Always be on the look out for things that need "keeping".
4. Don't wait for later, when you have a moment now.
5. Never let the trash overflow.
6. When you don't know what to do with something, ask.
7. Be aware when you are making a mess.
8. Sweep everyday to keep the mice away.
9. Always treat the kitchen, as if you are expecting company for dinner.
10. The kitchen is NOT a dumping ground.

While this is all well and good, a list does not automatically change the situation. What we have succeeded at doing, however, is sharing our awareness of what needs to happen not only in the kitchen, but all over the house.

We dove right in---all three of us (the 4yo too!)--and began putting our kitchen to rights. Son was so motivated, he took on the task of organizing a couple of cupboards that he has been the primary mess maker in. He did a fine job, too!

It always seems to come down to character and habit. Both things I would like to work on a bit more. Teaching about character is great, but how much better to incorporate it into habit.

This all took me back to one of my favorite organizing books of all time, "Organizing from the Inside Out", by Julie Morgenstern. This is the book that teaches you to have things put away WHERE you use them. So we continued with a lot of organizing and cleaning! At one point, son began working on an adjoining room. When I asked him why he was in there, he said that room needed it too! That's my boy.

Raman Noodles with Egg

I'm very happy that something I tried (a great idea from my friend eeeemommy) actually worked! One of the last of the "processed" convenience foods I've been relying on is Raman noodles. The kids love them and I only use half the seasoning, if that. It was suggested that I drop a scrambled egg into the mix and let it cook with the noodles. I wasn't sure how this would work, but healthier is the objective here so I went for it.

I figured if it flopped I'd be out .27 cents so I wasn't too worried. Well, no complaints! The kids enjoyed it even more and I can breathe a sigh of relief that they had a little protein with their processed noodles! Oh boy. We didn't, however, throw the peas in (per my planned menu) this time. They just couldn't handle that WITH the new change! :) Bad, bad mommy!

When Things Get a Little Blurry

A few days ago I wrote about my glasses being broken. Well, a little electrical tape and I'm good till my replacements come, but glasses or no, when I stepped into the shower the other morning rather blurry eyed (in more ways than one!) I wasn't prepared for our little visitor.

As I saw him curled up in the corner I screamed and jumped out of the shower slamming the shower door and yelling for the husband. He came running while son went for a stick to kill "it" with. I was totally creaped out...totally nauseous. Yuck! Well, husband killed it and then calmly walked past me without a word. When I asked him why he wasn't getting it out, he told me...

"GET SOME GLASSES!"

So. I did. And then I "saw" it. The little hair-ball. As in, HAIR-BALL--with a tail, mind you. So I swore him to secrecy and he warned me about the wife who called "mouse". Well, it's just too good not to record for posterity. Nothing this exciting has happened around here for awhile! And just so my children will remember, they saw just how fast their mom could "move" when need be!

Review: "Away Goes Sally"

We just completed "Away Goes Sally", by Elizabeth Coatsworth. First published in 1934, this delightful start to a five-book series speaks of a pioneering spirit and extended family life in the 1800's.

This book was listed in our Truthquest guide (AHYSII) and I know I've seen the author on other lists. Probably, Jan Bloom's, since that's the list I use the most. It was not an easy book to find; definately retired from the libraries around here. However, Bethlehem Books has re-published it and others by the author, so I bought it new (a rare occurance for me!).

I wrote about the author's delightful use of poetry at the close of each chapter, here. It is a treat! But, I also wanted to share about another area that may concern readers. The consultation of a wit*ch for "fortune telling".

Usually when I'm reading aloud, I'm able to edit as the occassion may provide. I started to edit with this book, then having recently read about King Saul and his consultation with the Wit*ch of Endor, I thought son would be old enough for a lesson.

We talked about how very real and how very dangerous such things are. I shared about Saul, and the consequences of his sin. We talked about whether or not such a thing is ever acceptable, even as pretend. We talked about it's literary value; whether there was any, or whether it detracted from the best part of the story telling. For us, it definately detracted! It is especially confusing, in light of it, to then have the characters observe the Sabbath and a time of Bible reading.

We did enjoy the rest of the book, which (without giving too much away) has a family moving to Maine in a very unorthodox manner. The story is adorable and the characters are endearing. The story is a lighthearted approach to its subject matter, but appealing none the less. We haven't decided if we'll invest in the rest of the series as they are not cheap, but we wouldn't be opposed to them, if we came across them at a bargain.

I know that it's always helpful to know about these things before you open a book, or hand a book to a child. Here in our home, we are more particular than most, I'd say. There are just too many fabulous books to waste time on tripe.

Poetry as a Literary Device

Since we've been enjoying poetry with our Poem-A-Day readings, we've become very attracted to all things poetic. Recently, we finished several books that included poems as part of the stories. We've been charmed by this use of poetry in story telling.

In "Away Goes Sally" (more to come on this book), author Elizabeth Coatsworth includes a poem at the end of each chapter. There is a little something in each one that conncects to the story.

"When all the other leaves are gone

The brown oak leaves still linger on,

Their branches obstinately lifted

To frozen wind and snow deep-drifted.

But when the winter is well passed

The brown oak leaves drop down at last,

To let the little buds appear

No larger than a mouse's ear."

Another favorite is "Mr. Pipes Comes to America". Here, author Douglas Bond uses common and little known hymn lyrics to totally bring you to worship.

"O Father, deign these walls to bless;

Fill with Thy love their emptiness;

And let their door a gateway be

To lead us from ourselves to Thee."

--John Greenleaf Whittier

Mr. Bond also uses his immense knowledge of ancient hymns in his "Crown and Covenant" Series.

"The mighty Lord is on my side,

I will not be afraid;

For anything that man can do

I shall not be dismayed.

Thou art my God, I'll thee exalt;

My God I will thee praise.

Give thanks to God, for he is good;

His mercy lasts always."

Lastly, in our most recently completed Lamplighter, Norman MacLeod, in "The Golden Thread" treats us to "verses" that delight:

"In the darkest night, my child,

Canst thou see the Right, my child?

Forward then! God is near!

The Right will be light to thee,

Armour and might to thee;

Forward! And never fear!"

I think that it's only through adding poetry to our lives daily that we've become more attune to noticing these things in our regular reading. The kids are enjoying calling out "that's a poem!" It always brings a smile to our faces. :) Eventually, we'll try our hand at penning our own. One step at a time!

Menu Plan Monday

I really thought I was done posting for today, but remembered that I had promised myself to do this at least once! So here it is--our menu plan for the week!

Breakfast:
Mon-Almond Vanilla Oatmeal, bananas, juice.
Tue-Oatmeal Walnut Pancakes, all-natural sausage links, sliced pear
Wed-My fabulous home-made granola, clementines
Thur-Hearty Muffins, Scrambled eggs, bananas
Fri-Cinnamon/Nutmeg French Toast, fresh juice
Sat-Whole Grain waffles, sausages, bananas
Sun-whatever's fastest (we can't all be perfect!)

Lunch:
Mon-Mac N Cheese, green beans, applesauce
Tue-Turkey Chili Burgers (leftovers), carrots, apples
Wed-Raman Noodles w/egg, peas, pears
Thur-SunflowerSeed Butter & Jelly sandwiches, baggie salad, fruitabu (picnic)
Fri-Texas Chili, toast w/honey, apples
Sat-Pizza (leftovers; if not, plan B. Haven't gotten that far yet!)
Sun-Leftovers TBA!

Dinner:
Mon-Turkey Tacos w/rice & beans, pears
Tue-Grandpa's lake Fish!, Broccoli & clementines
Wed-Garlic Rosemary Chicken, green beans, whole grain rolls, apples
Thur-Pizza Express (takeout)
Fri-Sloppy Turkey Joes, Mixed Veggies, Fruit salad
Sat-Oh! Why can't I decide?! :(
Sun-BBQ Pork Roast, green beans, fruit leftovers

This post explains a little bit why I've listed breakfasts. I've been menu planning lunch and dinner for a few months. It really has made a difference for us!

For more Menu Plan Mondays, go here!

Establishing Your Days

Over the last few weeks as I've attempted to maintain some semblance of goal setting, I've begun what I humbly refer to as "Establishing My Days". Of course, whenever I say it, I immediately think of the beautiful scripture that tells us...

Psa 37:23

The steps of a man are established by the LORD, when he delights in his way;

...and though my prayer is always that the Lord will establish my steps, as I look at the definition of "establish" I see...[Webster's 1828 Dictionary]

Establish
ESTAB'LISH, v.t. [L. stabilio; Heb. to set, fix, establish.]
1. To set and fix firmly or unalterably; to settle permanently.
I will establish my covenant with him for an everlasting covenant. Gen 17.
4. To settle or fix; to confirm; as, to establish a person, society or corporation, in possessions or privileges.
6. To settle or fix what is wavering, doubtful or weak; to confirm.
So were the churches established in the faith. Acts 16.
To the end he may establish your hearts unblamable in
holiness. l Thess.3.
7. To confirm; to fulfill; to make good.
Establish thy word to thy servant. Psa 119

First let me say, there is nothing quite like Webster's 1828 dictionary! Imagine a world where a languages basis is "established" using the Bible! (Note: Some definitions were not needed for this point and I added emphasis) But, I digress...

Ok. So, to set, fix, confirm, settle...permanently, to fulfillment...making good on it. I know. You're still wondering what I'm talking about which is "Establishing Your Days", OR deciding what you will do each day. In reality, this began when we went from a two to a one car household. Suddenly, I needed to plan more carefully when I would need the car; when I would be leaving the house.

For my own sanity, I needed to decide ahead of time--I needed to establish my days. I have found this has brought a great deal of rest to us as it makes many decisions for us in the day. Whether or not to begin something we can't finish. What to wear. Even how we will eat (if we'll be home, or need a picnic). Another side benefit is realizing how much we didn't need the car, as well as how much more we can get done if we stay home! This is all it is to start, then I can add "what" I'll do at home (like have a bake day, for instance):

Monday: Home

Tuesday: Library

Wednesday: Home

Thursday: Family Business trip

Friday: Small Group Night

William Blake Poem-A-Day (Updated!)

(Please see important update at the bottom.)

We've truly enjoyed our exposure to poetry since we added a Poem-A-Day, this year. I got the idea from various Charlotte Mason materials, as well as one of my favorite resources, Ambleside Online. While I'm certain we're not doing all we could in this area, we are doing all we can at this time. We make a poet card--8.5x11 with name and picture to hang in our school room, and a brief questionaire that son fills out when we complete that particular poet. We always start with a biography, and we chose at least one selection to memorize. Most importantly, we take our time. Just the exposure (like with our Art-A-Day) has really helped us to learn and experience new things. However brief the "glimpse", it stays with us all.

Currently we are reading many of the works of William Blake. Though we read one mini-biography about him, and plan to read more, he is not one of our favorites so far. We began with "Poetry for Young People: William Blake" and though I've loved other books in the series, the poems selected for this volume are mostly dark and un-pleasant, with not-so-nice character traits constantly looming and made to look acceptable. Supposedly, one of his influences was the Bible. He seems to throw around a strange perception of who he thought God was. I didn't care for it. Of course, that's just my very un-trained interpretation! The selections chosen by Ambleside, however, are of a different nature. It's sort of like seeing a light at the end of a longggg, dark tunnel! I appreciate the effort put forth for their free compilation.

If you haven't added Poetry or a Poem-A-Day yet, you might try it! It's not time consuming to prepare and how far you go with it is up to you!

Update: The other day I was reading a magazine entitled "Christian History and Biography". It was a special issue on Gnosticism. Guess who's mentioned? None other than William Blake! I did a bit more digging, and though I'm no grand researcher, it appears the guy was indeed a self-proclaimed Gnostic. Sick stuff, my friends! This explains so much and I regret having spent the time we did reading his stuff. I think from now on when I'm unfamiliar with the author, I'll dig and ask questions first!

Our Complete Week: 1/27/08-2/2/08

Many eons ago, I began a series of posts entitles "Our Complete "[Month]". I loved recording all the highlights from our month, but after awhile, I found it too hard to remember everything that I wasn't diligently recording. Slacker! Lately, I've re-discovered my passion for recording our homeschool journey and have been posting a weekly update. As I began to think about this past week, I realized I needed to #1..put the dates in my post so I could better track them, and #2, re-claim the 'ole "Complete" title which I always liked!

From the original "Complete" post, I wrote:
According to Webster's 1828 dictionary...
COMPLETE, a.
1. Having no deficiency; perfect. And ye are complete in Him who is the head of all principality and power. Col. 2.
2. Finished; ended; concluded; as, the edifice is complete. This course of vanity almost complete. In strict propriety, this word admits of no comparison; for that which is complete, cannot be more or less so.
COMPLETE, v.t.
1. To finish; to end; to perfect; as, to complete a bridge, or an edifice; to complete an education.
2. To fill to accomplish; as, to complete hopes or desires.
3. To fulfil; to accomplish; to perform; as, the prophecy of Daniel is completed.

So much is communicated in one word! We rarely think of the words we use--we just USE them, but this truly struck me!

Of course, our weeks are never truly "complete" in that we are never perfect, nor is our education finished, but they may be "complete" for such a time as this--for this "season". And that is what I strive for as I focus on the Lord, recount the day and all that He has "completed".

So our complete week included:
Starting the week in bed with the stomach flu. God had mercy on me yet again, and no other family members came down with the dreaded nasties. Since my normal planning and meditation day was "taken", I had to use Monday for it. Son did some of his "on your own" work, but we really didn't get much done in the way of learning.

Tuesday, we were back in the saddle and we began our regular, all-new, thoroughly updated, can't mess this one up even if I tried (I love pushing the limits!), schedule. So far, so good. The main point for the new schedule (for our lesson time) was to see daughter's learning time on paper and how it would match up with son's. I think I'm coming closer to figuring out the two student thing, but MAN is it more difficult than I thought. I really don't know how all you big-family moms do it. Two MAY be the end of me!

Learning-wise, daughter and I rowed (FIAR) "Another Celebrated Dancing Bear". Not really my favorite of the selections so far. The main character issue was supposed to be jealousy, but it also included whining, and feeling sorry for yourself. Who likes to read a story full of those things everyday?! But we did (dutiful little FIARers!). The book did have redeeming qualities of friendship and hospitality. Believe me, there was plenty to learn--just not pleasantly! There were so many character issues, we didn't do much with the Russian geography. Daughter is totally enthralled with the idea of the circus though, which is amazing considering it's not really about the circus; only mentions it. Being the fabulous homeschool mom that I am (harhar--try not to laugh too loud!), I did look up the Ringling Brothers, Barnum and Baily Circus to see when it would next be near us. It'll be here on her birthday! So there you go!

I wrote earlier this week about the wonderful lessons we experienced with our Joshua Bible lesson. We ended the week comparing Joshua to Jesus--as in Joshua was a shadow of Jesus to come. Now this is what I'm talking about (from Chuck Missler and Koinonia House--thanks Missy!)--

It is interesting to notice the parallels in design between the Book of Joshua in the Old Testament and the Book of Revelation. Joshua's name is in Hebrew; in Greek it could be rendered "Jesus." Joshua's mission is to dispossess the usurpers from the Land on behalf of God's people; in Revelation, Jesus' mission is to dispossess the Planet Earth of the usurpers. Joshua initially sends ahead two witnesses. (We call them spies, but all they accomplished was getting a Gentile woman saved.) The two witnesses of Revelation Chapter 11 are a prominent element. Also we observe that in the initial attack on the Amorite capital of Jericho in the book of Joshua every rule of the Torah was violated: the Levites were exempt from military duties, yet they lead the procession. They were to do no work on Sabbath Day, yet here they march around Jericho once a day for six days, and then seven times on the seventh day! They are to keep silent until the final trumpet blast, etc. It is interesting that the Seven Trumpets in Revelation are introduced after a strange silence. It seems that in Revelation we have the final "Joshua," dispossessing the Planet Earth of its usurpers on behalf of God's people in a manner that is remarkably parallel.

Have I mentioned how much I love our Judah Bible Lessons. I guess technically, it's just God's Word that I love! Judah Bible Curriculum is just the outline we use. God provides us the "lessons"!! Thank you, Lord!

Most of the other topics we covered this week are sort of a blur. Because of the shortened week that only got shorter when we finished a bunch of our work on Thursday (and DIDN'T get a snow day on Friday), I'm kinda surprised to find myself at Saturday!

Unfortunately, my week ended with my glasses falling off, me stepping on them and breaking them while bending over to wipe my child's rear! That's always pleasant. Love spending hard earned money on my sight though. (Oh, brother!)

God blessed me this week with visits with several friends--the last visit being today. That does make the days a little sunnier in this very gloomy February! God also gave me the strength to get my bread baked, organize and re-do our school room and follow my menu plan. Whew!

Now! On to next week!